Fit: My fitness journey, fitspirations, and where to possibly find motivation.

Before my surgery people always admired my enthusiasm, self control, and my endless motivation to stick with my diet and hit the gym religiously. I even had a couple of people say I've motivated them into having a healthier lifestyle. That felt great! When I started my journey I watched YouTube videos, did research, and pumped myself with tons of information. The problem was: it was TOO MUCH information! Luckily, I found an owner of a YouTube fitness channel that actually answered questions!! And I had lots of them! He even went as far as emailing me a beginner workout plan for the week. His YouTube channel is "Campbell Fitness" and his name is Brandon. As far as I'm concerned this man deserves a lot more recognition.
I also decided to hire a coach. I'm the type of person to follow a schedule. If its written down for me, that's what I do.  And I thought, "A coach can write a diet and workout plan for me!" He did. Now, you have to remember I was a newbie. There were a lot of things that I should've done and didn't but lesson learned. Yes the fat melted away but in hindsight, I really should've hired someone locally and done a little more research on the diet portion. I then emailed him and said I was going another route. I did it on my own for a couple of weeks, had surgery and now here we are. I've gained some weight back and starting to feel uncomfortable again.
It's very easy to say, "I have to lose weight" or "I want to go to the gym" but who are we kidding? Without the motivation there is NO way you're going to reach those goals. It's like someone saying, "I want to quit smoking" but lacks the motivation. If they don't want to, it won't happen.
So where did I find the motivation? I found it on YouTube, Instagram, and myself. I surrounded myself with fitness pages and videos. I hated the way I felt. I hated clothes shopping. I was uncomfortable in my own skin. I concentrated on those feelings before I watched a video and before I looked at fitness pages on Instagram. I surrounded myself with people who had the same
goals and fitness interests. Also, when I did have a coach, my teammates kept me motivated. If I can motivate someone, you can most definitely find motivation in other people.

So here’s my advice:
1) Start off slow. If you REALLY lack motivation, start by watching fitness videos. Don’t go to the gym and do an hour of cardio. Of course you’ll never go back! I started by watching then I followed These two sites motivated me to workout at home! I found the motivation to get up at 4am and actually work out! The best part, most of the workouts were less than 20 minutes! Also, it helped that Zuzka has the body I’m aiming for! ūüėČ Then, go to the gym. three times a week and eventually four, and so on.

2) Get yourself an Instagram page! Instagram is full of fitness pages. It’s full of down to earth people that love to motivate and answer questions. Take a look at who I’m following and you’ll get an idea. Now, follow someone that will teach you something, not someone who loves taking pictures of themselves and had nothing to do with fitness. There are lots of nice bodies to admire, but what are they teaching you? Are they teaching you how to get the right angle for a sexy picture or what they did to achieve that body? Also, the pages that offer healthy meal ideas.

3)Hire yourself a trainer. You’re better off with a trainer that knows nutrition as well. Someone that understands what you want and what your fitness goals are. Someone that has time for you. He or she should be available to answer questions. Don’t go for popularity. Go for quality. The reason I add this is when I hired my coach I felt like I had someone to answer to, so there was no messing up or I would “get in trouble”. He would hold me accountable. Also, you’re paying money. You don’t want it to go to waste.

4) Diet. Find what works for you, BUT KEEP IT HEALTHY! I’ve done Weight Watchers, clean eating, my coach’s plan, and IIFYM. (If it fits your macros) Out of all of them my favorite was Weight Watchers. For my ultimate goal, I think I will stick to IIFYM. I’m still getting the hang of it. (But that’s another post) Also meal prepping is vital! (Also another post)

5) Find a gym buddy. Now, when I say buddy I don’t mean that you’re going to be in the gym for hours chit chatting. He or she has to be as motivated and passionate as you. They have to be the ones that call you and “kick you in the ass” when you just don’t feel like it.

6) Take pictures. When you’re making up excuses of why you don’t want to work out, look at your “before” pic. That should be motivating enough. Also, when you see yourself progressing every week, you’ll want to keep going! Grab your favorite motivational picture and put it on the wallpaper of your phone. Every time you unlock that phone you’re reminded of what you want to achieve.

7) Think about how you feel. Do you like the way you look or feel? Would you be confident on the beach with your swimsuit? Or do you still feel you have to cover yourself up? Having a hard time in the fitting rooms? Sucks doesn’t it? Keep that in mind when you want to steer away from your goals.

Beauty: Sally Hansen Insta Dri Review

I absolutely loved doing this manicure for my friend! First, the brush.¬† The brush is oval in shape not the traditional squared.¬† It’s thick and so easy to manage.¬† It covers more nail width area when swiping the polish to the tip.¬† The polish goes on smooth and minimal mess on the cuticles.

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Secondly, it does what it says.  It really did dry quickly.  I felt I had to hurry before the polish clumped.  When it did dry, it dried like an acrylic paint.  It was a thick polish but I still had to use two coats. Definitely buying more of the Sally Hansen polishes just to have more of those brushes!

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Products used:  Sally Hansen Insta Dri: Presto Pink; Essie: Set in Stone.

Mom: Stearns Puddle Jumper Floatation Device for Kids


The Puddle Jumper was a God send for me this summer.¬† My daughter refused to stay in her float she wanted to “swim” free without my or my husband’s help.¬† Needless to say I was a tad stressed.¬† Then, there it was! At her Godmother’s house.¬† I never knew this thing existed!! She bought one for her son and let Ava¬†use it for the day.¬† I couldn’t believe my eyes!¬† Ava didn’t need to be carried, and she was safe???¬† Wow! She had the best time in the pool, feeling independent and actually jumping from the stairs into the water! (With me close by of course)¬† The Puddle Jumper is¬†a learn-to-swim aid,¬†fits kids 30 -50 lbs. (13.6 kg-22.7 kg), and it’s Coast Guard approved.¬† It comes in different styles and designs, including 3D.¬† I bought mine at Buy Buy Baby for $19.99.¬† Target has it online a little cheaper.¬† This is a must have if your child doesn’t know how to swim yet.¬† Ava started to tread water and mimic the other kids who knew how to swim.¬† ¬†She was able to lie on her back, stomach, and stay horizontal in the water without sinking.¬† Where if she only had the arm floaties , she would’ve had to work a little harder and not had been able to lie on her stomach or back.¬† In my opinion, this is the next best thing next to actual swimming lessons! Worth every penny!

Beauty: My First Fishtail Manicure


I am so proud of this manicure.  It took me a while but I finally got the hang of it.  The trick is not too many layers and use opaque nail polishes so you only have to paint the stripe once.  I made the mistake of polishing the stripe twice and the manicure got ruined.  So my on second try, I only went half way on my nail on the first stripe (by the bottom cuticle) and only striped once the rest of the way. Worked like a charm! Products used:  Julep: base coat, China Glaze: Glistening Snow, Nars: Schiap,  Loreal: Royalty Reinvented, Seche Vite Top Coat.


Welcome! My name is Lisandra and trying out this blog thing¬†ūüėȬ† I love everything beauty, fitness, and being a mom; hence the name ūüôā¬† I am not a professional, I’m just¬† on a learning journey.¬†¬†A journey to being¬†fit, learning about make-up and beauty and everyday I’m learning how to be a better mother.¬† I am 38 years old, married and a mom¬†of a beautiful and¬†VERY spirited two and a half year old named Ava.¬† Everyday,¬†she tests me, makes me¬†laugh, and stresses me out¬†but in a good way!¬† It’s so much fun!¬† Learn with me and¬†laugh with me.¬† So sit back and enjoy.